Top 10 Tips to improve your personality
Introduction
1. Like people genuinely
When we meet someone, we create an image of that person in the mind. This image can be positive, negative or neutral.But if we want to develop our personality, then we have to make this image intentionally positive. We have to train our minds to find good in people, not evil. This is not so difficult to do, if you instruct the mind to find goodness, then it will find out.
2. Meet with grin
What happens when you meet your best friend? You smile while looking at each other; Smile shows that you like the front. The same thing applies in all kinds of relations; So whenever you meet someone (of course there are some exceptions) then bring a genuine smile on your face, people will like you, they will be happy to meet you. There will be little that does not get a smile in response to your smile, and if it happens then let it be, you just have to play your part well.
It must have seemed quite easy to hear, what to do, only a little smile has to be done, many people do it naturally; But many people do not notice this small thing, and if you do not, then bring it into your practice. A smiling and happy face is more attractive than a flat or stern face, and is very helpful in making your personality attractive.
Smiling also has another benefit, as per some research; When we are happy from inside, then our external expressions change accordingly, by seeing us people understand that we are happy; And exactly the opposite is also true, that is, when we make our external expressions pleasant, it also affects our internal mood and it becomes good.
It must have seemed quite easy to hear, what to do, only a little smile has to be done, many people do it naturally; But many people do not notice this small thing, and if you do not, then bring it into your practice. A smiling and happy face is more attractive than a flat or stern face, and is very helpful in making your personality attractive.
Smiling also has another benefit, as per some research; When we are happy from inside, then our external expressions change accordingly, by seeing us people understand that we are happy; And exactly the opposite is also true, that is, when we make our external expressions pleasant, it also affects our internal mood and it becomes good.
3. Keep name remember
For a person, his name has more importance than all the other names in the world. So when you talk to someone, keep taking his name in between. Of course if the person is senior to you, then you will have to add the required suffix or prefix with the name.
Taking the name in between, the front person feels its importance and also pays more attention to you. And of course he is happy that you are giving importance to his name.
Friends, I was also a bit raw in remembering the name, even after 2 minutes of knowing the name, he used to get off carefully. This was basically because I did not even try to remember the name; But now I intentionally try to remember the name after hearing it once. You too "understand the importance of the name", remembering the name gives you a very big edge.
Taking the name in between, the front person feels its importance and also pays more attention to you. And of course he is happy that you are giving importance to his name.
Friends, I was also a bit raw in remembering the name, even after 2 minutes of knowing the name, he used to get off carefully. This was basically because I did not even try to remember the name; But now I intentionally try to remember the name after hearing it once. You too "understand the importance of the name", remembering the name gives you a very big edge.
4. Put "You" before "I"
Who would you like more: who talks about what you mean or someone who talks about what you mean?
Of course you will choose the second option… Every person is engaged in putting himself first… I am like this, I like it, I do it… .is considered it? But you separate from it, you put "You" before "I".
How are you? / What do you like? / what do you do?"
I bet, people will like you more by doing this.Because not just actors, cricketers, or writers, a common man also wants an audience… When you become a common man's audience, you become special for him. And when you do this with many people, you become special to many people and in the process you become more of a personality than a person, a personality whom everyone likes, whose charisma makes everyone Influences.
Of course you will choose the second option… Every person is engaged in putting himself first… I am like this, I like it, I do it… .is considered it? But you separate from it, you put "You" before "I".
How are you? / What do you like? / what do you do?"
I bet, people will like you more by doing this.Because not just actors, cricketers, or writers, a common man also wants an audience… When you become a common man's audience, you become special for him. And when you do this with many people, you become special to many people and in the process you become more of a personality than a person, a personality whom everyone likes, whose charisma makes everyone Influences.
5. Listen before speaking
You can call it extension of point 4. When you take interest in others, there should be honesty in it. You did not ask 'What do you like?' 'So that he simply completes his answer quickly and you start reciting your Rama-Katha.'
You have to not only give the person in front a chance to speak first, but also listen to his talk carefully and talk to him in between. For ex: If someone says that he is fond of traveling, then you can ask him what is his favorite tourist destination, and which places are good there.
The demand of good listeners never decreases. Be a good listener and see how your demand grows.
You have to not only give the person in front a chance to speak first, but also listen to his talk carefully and talk to him in between. For ex: If someone says that he is fond of traveling, then you can ask him what is his favorite tourist destination, and which places are good there.
The demand of good listeners never decreases. Be a good listener and see how your demand grows.
6. What is said is more important than how say
What you say matters more than how you speak. For example. If you made a mistake and you say sorry by making a mouth, then that sorry has no meaning. We not only have to use the right words but also have to take care of how they are being told.
So pay attention to your tone and body language, talk to people as polite and well-mannered as possible.Here I would also like to say that many people see the ability to speak English by relating it to Personality, while it is not so, you can be a person with an impressive personality without knowing A, B, C.
So pay attention to your tone and body language, talk to people as polite and well-mannered as possible.Here I would also like to say that many people see the ability to speak English by relating it to Personality, while it is not so, you can be a person with an impressive personality without knowing A, B, C.
7. Help people without thinking about your benefits
Many times we are in such a situation that we can help others, but out of laziness or thinking that we have no use in it, we do not help. But a person with a good personality is always ready to help people.Yes, it does not mean that you leave your important work and continue to help people only, but if you can get help from someone after giving some time, then definitely come. Your one selfless help will not only lift others but you will also feel good.
8. Make your external appearance look good
Since our first impression is made due to our appearance, therefore, this point needs some attention.
By appearance, I do not mean that you should go to the gym and make a body, or keep going around the beauty parlor, it simply means that you dress up according to the occasion and pay attention to personal hygiene. Small things like your hair-cut, nails and polished shoe affect your personality.
By appearance, I do not mean that you should go to the gym and make a body, or keep going around the beauty parlor, it simply means that you dress up according to the occasion and pay attention to personal hygiene. Small things like your hair-cut, nails and polished shoe affect your personality.
9. Find what you can appreciate
Whether I am you or you Mr.Bachchan, everyone likes to hear compliments. This is a great formula to win people's hearts and make your friend….
I don't know why it is so difficult to praise someone in India… must have gone to the orchestra that is held at weddings… .The singer sing a great song and instead of cheering, people start seeing each other's faces… ; It is good that I do not sing in orchestra, otherwise I would have gone into depression because of such an audience.
Well, here I am talking about praising at the individual level. If you search, you will see something to praise you in every person; It can be anything - his garden, collection of coins, room decorated with goodies, his smile, his name, anything, if you search, you will be able to see right. And when seen, do not sit down as a submissive, By praising someone, you will give him what he wants from the heart… You will increase his happiness, make his day, and the biggest thing is that you will give him fuel to carry on that work even further. If you are hesitant to speak in front, then do a sms later, tell it in the mail, but if something is praiseworthy, then praise it.
Yes, even if you do not get it even after trying a lot, then you try to fake it… Children also understand whether you are praising true or false.
I don't know why it is so difficult to praise someone in India… must have gone to the orchestra that is held at weddings… .The singer sing a great song and instead of cheering, people start seeing each other's faces… ; It is good that I do not sing in orchestra, otherwise I would have gone into depression because of such an audience.
Well, here I am talking about praising at the individual level. If you search, you will see something to praise you in every person; It can be anything - his garden, collection of coins, room decorated with goodies, his smile, his name, anything, if you search, you will be able to see right. And when seen, do not sit down as a submissive, By praising someone, you will give him what he wants from the heart… You will increase his happiness, make his day, and the biggest thing is that you will give him fuel to carry on that work even further. If you are hesitant to speak in front, then do a sms later, tell it in the mail, but if something is praiseworthy, then praise it.
Yes, even if you do not get it even after trying a lot, then you try to fake it… Children also understand whether you are praising true or false.
10. Continue to observe and improve
Personality development is an on-going process. We all have an infinite scope of improvement, so don't ever think that improvement was to happen now, but instead of taking some time for yourself, observe your activities, your words minutely, what have you done, how can you do it better You can do it, is it not that you are considering yourself as a thirty-something person about something and in reality people do not like this thing of yours.
For example. A few years ago I realized that I would have made so many mistakes point out that in order to bring quick improvement in people that their confidence would be reduced; so I improved on this point and now i do this patiently. Growing on this path, you also keep observing yourself, and keep improving continuously.
Note-I hope these 10 things will help you in making your personality pleasant.
For example. A few years ago I realized that I would have made so many mistakes point out that in order to bring quick improvement in people that their confidence would be reduced; so I improved on this point and now i do this patiently. Growing on this path, you also keep observing yourself, and keep improving continuously.
Note-I hope these 10 things will help you in making your personality pleasant.
What to Do Now?
Now you have to practice these ten things in turn. To start with you choose one point of your choice, remember that you have to focus only on one point at a time. After choosing, apply it in real life. Keep an eye on yourself in your day-today activities and see if you are really able to apply it.When you have done this for a week, then take the second point and practice it now. During this time, you continued to apply the first point as well, but if it gets missed then worrying is currently your focus point 2, and it should not be missed.
In the same way, you keep practicing the rest of the points as well, and within a few months you will find that you are able to concentrate on all the things together. Just be patient and keep on moving, and surely you will soon own a pleasant personality.
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